I am facing a bit of a challenge in my life right now. For the last few weeks my wife and I have taken in our 19-year-old grandson. He is currently unemployed and is just now finishing his high school diploma. In the last couple of years he’s been living with relatives, bouncing around with no real priorities or direction in his life. His mom and step-dad told him that he could no longer live with them if he doesn’t change his ways. They have three young children together and fear that he would set a bad example if he lives in their home. Needless to say he was not willing to make changes.

He became rebellious as many teenagers his age do, it’s all about them, they know it all, not heeding the advise given by their parents. He is not going to church, does not read his Bible and is more interested in smoking weed and hanging out with his friend who like to do the same. He listens to rap music all day long which contains a lot of bad language which has a bad influence on many young people lives today. I talked to him about smoking wheat and that it is not cool or hip and that the music he listens to is degrading and full of darkness. I talk but he doesn’t listen, it goes into one ear and out the other.

Just this week I was telling him that he is bringing darkness into my home and that I do not like it. His typical response, “what do you mean?” I said to him, I once lived in darkness until I came to the light which is Jesus, Who took all that darkness that surrounded me away. Now I’m feeling the presence of darkness in the house. I told him that if he surrounds himself with darkness, he allows for that darkness to enter his mind. Once it has entered, it will take control and make it’s home there.

If we allow the darkness to come in, it will reflect on what kind of person we are or what kind of person we have become. There is so much darkness already in the world that has invaded many people’s mind and they are controlled by the darkness. They may not realize it but they are under the control of the evil one. Everyone that lives in the darkness is not serving God Who is Light. “This is the message which we have heard from Him and declare to you, that God is light and in Him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth” 1John 1:5, 6.

Jesus talked about that in the gospel of Matthew: “The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be full of light. “But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great is that darkness! “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” Mat 6:22-24.

I think that this is a good reminder for all of us who serve the Lord and want to be His disciples. Are we letting any kind of darkness come into our homes and minds? Are we watching the same programs on TV as the world? Maybe some of us have become complacent and have compromised in some ways. I have sometimes experienced some compromise in my own walk, thinking, that movie has a few bad words, but hey I can handle that. The media and Hollywood has become so dark these days that I believe it has a bad influence on many people’s lives, young and old. Am I allowed as a Christian to watch movies and shows? Yes, but do I want to pollute my mind with shows that are nor edifying and are in reality worthless and a waste of time?

I was once living in the world and I was of the world with all it’s lust and desires. Now that I know Jesus I am not of this world any longer. I am living in this world, but I am not of this world, I don’t have to participate in the things of the world. Jesus has set the believers free from all that bondage. We are free in Christ. Now that I am free why would I go back to Egypt, and a live a life of bondage again?

“They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. “Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth” John 17:16, 17.

Jesus came into my life and showed me the truth, I am no longer believe in the lies of this world. Satan is the prince of this world, he is nothing but darkness, full of lies and deceit. Btw, Ozzy Osbourne is not the prince of darkness, but that prince of darkness does exist and his name is Satan or the Devil, the accuser and the murderer. Everyone that does not want to come to the Light lives in darkness and serves him, willingly or unwillingly.

I’m not sure how this will all play out yet with my grandson, but I trust in the Lord that He will guide me and give me directions. I don’t want to come over as to condemning, but at the same time I can not condone his behavior. I’m sure that many parents have faced or currently experiencing a similar situation with their teen daughter or son. Unfortunately, I can not force him to read his Bible or to go to church. I cannot force God on him. How could I, God does not force Himself on anyone. It is a choice that every person has to make. At this moment my grandson has turned from the Lord, but I know that the Lord still loves him.

I pray that one day he will realize that he lives a life of illusions and that this world has nothing to offer that satisfies. This is also a time of testing for me, can I be a good example to him and show him that he is loved? Can I show the love that Jesus has for the sinners and the backsliders? It is not easy to witness someone going the wrong direction towards a steep cliff, especially a family member. I told my grandson that he is at this moment not on the narrow road but on the broad road that leads to destruction. I have been on that road and it is not an easy one to travel.

“I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.”John 8:12.

Author: Media 4 Life Ministries

I consider myself a biblical Christian and a follower and disciple of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. My blogs are from a biblical perspective in a postmodern world. I love to study the Bible and the truth which it brings forth and applying those biblical principles into my daily walk with the Lord. Freelance Photographer and Photo Editor. Contractor for the Media Department at Maranatha Chapel in San Diego. I love to write and I have a passion to reach people with the good news of Jesus Christ, utilizing the internet. Administrator for Church websites and other ministries. I like reaching out via the social networks to people around the world, that are less fortunate or just need some encouragement in their walk with the Lord. It is not about religion, it is all about a loving relationship with Him Who saved me. All the glory belongs to Him and without Him, I can do nothing. Thank you for visiting my site and please leave me a comment. If you have any questions about the Christian faith, why we believe and what we believe, don’t hesitate to leave me a message. May the Lord bless you all. God is good all the time, all the time, God is good. http://media4lifeministries.com http://media4lifephotography.com https://twitter.com//Media4LifeMin

8 thoughts on “Darkness”

  1. Just an update and a Praise Report….

    I received a call from the police department out of the blue on Friday telling me that the officer had decided to release my van back to me and that there would be no impound fee or towing charge :). We serve an awesome God who still works miracles for His children.

    Thank you for your prayers, and please continue to pray for my son and for myself. I will also do the same. God Bless you my friend.

    Pastor B


  2. Thank you for sharing your story, it must be very difficult for you to let your son go. Just as our heavenly Father loves us, so do we love our children and sometimes we have to either chasten them or show “tough love”. I hope and pray that your son will be like the prodigal son and realize one day where home is. Blessings to you, Freddy.


  3. We released our son into God’s hands to live as an adult and bear the consequences of his choices. This has been very difficult. He moved out. But we choose to stand as the heavenly Father, pictured in the parable of the prodigal who let his son go, waiting with love for his return. We continue to show our love but will not invite his darkness into our home to stay. He recognizes this love being extended to him. We have admitted mistakes we have made. We still show love to him in tangible ways. He sees this and his heart is softening. How long will it take? We do not know. But, we will continue to pray and wait with our arms wide open. Thanks for sharing your story.


  4. Thanks Brian for your encouraging words. It’s a tough world out there for these young kids. I’ll pray for you my friend that God will work all things for good. I pray that you will get your van back. Keep in touch, Freddy.


  5. You and your Grandson are in my prayers and I ask also for yours. I opened the e-mail with your share and was moved to tears because I am going through something very similar right now with my 18 year old son. He “borrowed” my van and ended up picking up some people and getting arrested with some substances that caused the officers to seize my van and are currently trying to sell it. This is the van that we use in the food bank to make deliveries. As you said, I am not sure how this is going to play out, but all we can really do is pray for them and set an example and trust that by Gods Grace they will one day understand that He is there and ready to take them into His arms and lead them to where He wants them to be. God Bless you my Brother.

    Pastor Brian Linebarger


  6. Thank you Adrienne, I have heard of those books. Teen challenge is a great ministry. My grandson is a great kid, he is just confused and deceived as so many other youngsters that are getting pulled in by the world. Thanks for you prayers and kind words. It’s truly a blessing to have you as a friend. May the Lord richly bless you and may He give you His perfect peace. Freddy.


  7. I pray that you’ll be guided with God’s love and mercy in your dealings with your grandson. Dealing with family is tough.

    Not sure if you’ve read these books but they might be of help if you haven’t. Hopefully both are still in print.

    Run Baby Run is by Nicky Cruz, and The Cross and the Switchblade is by Rev. David Wilkerson. Both men have dealt with teens through Teen Challenge, a wonderful ministery. They may help guide you through their words.

    I hope these help. They came to mind as I read through your blog. My prayers are with you and your grandson, Freddy. I know you love him and only want the best for him.


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